"How much life insurance do I need?" is the question I get asked more than any other. People either wildly underestimate it or pick an arbitrary round number with no basis in reality.
The DIME method fixes that. It's the closest thing to a universal standard in the industry, and I walk through it with every client.
What DIME Stands For
D — Debt Add up all outstanding debts except your mortgage. Credit cards, car loans, student loans, personal loans. This is the minimum your family would need to be debt-free.
I — Income Replacement Multiply your annual income by the number of years until your youngest child turns 18 (or longer if you want to support a spouse). This is the income your family would lose if you weren't here.
M — Mortgage The remaining balance on your home loan. Your family should be able to stay in their home without your income.
E — Education Estimate college costs for each child — typically $30,000–$60,000+ per child at current rates. This ensures your kids' educational goals aren't derailed.
Running the Numbers
Here's a real example. Assume:
- Debt: $25,000 (car loan + credit cards)
- Income: $75,000/year × 14 years = $1,050,000
- Mortgage: $280,000 remaining
- Education: 2 kids × $50,000 = $100,000
Total coverage needed: $1,455,000
A $1.5M, 20-year term policy for a healthy 35-year-old costs roughly $60–$80/month. That's less than a car payment to fully protect your family.
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What Most People Get Wrong
Not accounting for inflation — your income will likely grow, so your coverage need grows too. Consider building in 2–3% annual growth.
Undervaluing a stay-at-home spouse — childcare, cooking, household management, transportation all have real replacement cost. The economic value of a stay-at-home parent is often $100,000+ annually when you price out each service.
Ignoring employer coverage — group life insurance usually ends the day you leave the job. It's not portable protection. Treat it as a bonus, not a plan.
Picking term length too short — I see people buy 10-year policies when they have a newborn. By year 10, the child is 10 years old and still dependent. Match the term to your actual need.
After You Run the Numbers
Subtract any existing life insurance (employer-provided, existing personal policies) and any liquid assets your family could access. That's your actual coverage gap.
Then call me. I'll run the full calculation with you, compare term options from every major carrier, and show you exactly what coverage costs for your age and health. Most people are surprised — it's far more affordable than they assumed.
One 15-minute conversation. Total clarity.
Key Takeaways
- DIME stands for Debt, Income replacement, Mortgage, and Education
- A healthy 35-year-old can get $1.5M in term coverage for ~$60–80/month
- Most people underestimate the replacement value of a stay-at-home spouse
- Employer group life insurance is not portable — it disappears when you leave

Terry Denesha
Insurance Agent & Owner · Denesha Insurance Agency
Terry has helped California businesses save millions in benefits costs. He personally reviews every new client's situation — no handoffs, no call centers.
